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Post by Deleted on Apr 13, 2013 11:11:17 GMT -5
We're making our final trip to “the little green room” today. Both of my two remaining ferrets will be “crossing over” together.
Tonto has been doing the “slow decline” for the past 6+ months - his heart is wearing out, and he has trouble getting around. The quality of his life has been marginal for quite some time, but he’s still been enjoying food and cuddles. Since he’s been comfortable and sleeps all the time, we’ve tolerated his need for nursing care (meds and daily baths, extra cleaning…) for Kachina’s benefit.
Kachina has had a large mass in her gut for over 6 months. Even the vet has been amazed that this has never bothered her – she hasn’t been sensitive upon palpation/examination. This good fortune starting changing a couple of days ago. Her tummy is now sensitive and firm – a bit bloated. She’s most likely experiencing partial blockage from the mass.
So, its time, and I am soooo HATING this. Tom (husband) is out of town to make it worse. We have been so lucky to have had them for so long. They have been so healthy, and they are over 8 now. In any event, it’s good that they can go together so we won’t have a remaining, grieving ferret suffering emotional and physical distress from the loss of the “last sibling”.
Please think good thoughts for my little ones as they make their journey to the “other side” where they’ll be with their other siblings.
Many Thanks for your kind and Caring thoughts. -jennifer
Just so you know, I will remain on the forum, although work is killing me these days. I'm hoping to "have a life" for at least a short period of time in May-June timeframe.
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Post by Heather on Apr 13, 2013 11:25:53 GMT -5
Oh, Jennifer, my heart breaks for you So many little ones have walked the path, but to loose two at the same time I will light a candle to guide their wee paws on their next great adventure. They will not walk the path alone. I will also light a strength candle for you. As it burns may it burn away your grief and leave only the bright memories of your little ones. I'm sorry Jennifer, no words will ever offer the comfort that they did Goodbye little ones ciao
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Post by miamiferret2 on Apr 13, 2013 11:27:15 GMT -5
I am so sorry Jennifer. there are no words. you have given them a great life. may they rest in peace.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 13, 2013 12:02:11 GMT -5
Actually, Heather, It's a good thing that they go together. My husband and I have discussed this many times - we know how hard it is for the last remaining ferret. As far Tonto goes, we could opt to try to hang on to him a little longer, but he would be miserable without his little sister they are litter mates. Tonto does not get around very much these days - his Kachina gives him his life throughout the day through all her loving attention - she dotes on him. Without Kachina , Tonto would be alone most of the time. It would not be fair to let him see her loss only to live a life of lonley decline. That would shred my heart even worse than letting go....
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Post by Deleted on Apr 13, 2013 12:24:55 GMT -5
So sorry. May they DIP.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 13, 2013 13:06:06 GMT -5
so sorry for your losses. DIP
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Post by katt on Apr 13, 2013 13:33:56 GMT -5
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Post by Sherry on Apr 13, 2013 13:59:15 GMT -5
Oh gods Jennifer- I am so sorry I'm in tears here myself, knowing how much they have meant to you
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Post by Heather on Apr 13, 2013 15:00:30 GMT -5
Actually, Heather, It's a good thing that they go together. My husband and I have discussed this many times - we know how hard it is for the last remaining ferret. As far Tonto goes, we could opt to try to hang on to him a little longer, but he would be miserable without his little sister they are litter mates. Tonto does not get around very much these days - his Kachina gives him his life throughout the day through all her loving attention - she dotes on him. Without Kachina , Tonto would be alone most of the time. It would not be fair to let him see her loss only to live a life of lonley decline. That would shred my heart even worse than letting go.... Yes, it is true. I totally agree. Your decision, though heartbreaking for yourself, is truly the only solution. I was there many years ago, not a ferret but a pair of dogs. I do not envy your heart but I do strongly stand behind you in your decision. ciao
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Post by katt on Apr 13, 2013 15:06:37 GMT -5
Actually, Heather, It's a good thing that they go together. My husband and I have discussed this many times - we know how hard it is for the last remaining ferret. As far Tonto goes, we could opt to try to hang on to him a little longer, but he would be miserable without his little sister they are litter mates. Tonto does not get around very much these days - his Kachina gives him his life throughout the day through all her loving attention - she dotes on him. Without Kachina , Tonto would be alone most of the time. It would not be fair to let him see her loss only to live a life of lonley decline. That would shred my heart even worse than letting go.... Yes, it is true. I totally agree. Your decision, though heartbreaking for yourself, is truly the only solution. I was there many years ago, not a ferret but a pair of dogs. I do not envy your heart but I do strongly stand behind you in your decision. ciao We are all behind you 100%.
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Post by Jeremy's Boggle on Apr 13, 2013 15:11:06 GMT -5
I'm so very sorry. Losing both of them together and not having more to come home to
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Post by Deleted on Apr 13, 2013 17:08:48 GMT -5
Thanks for all the support - it's really important coming from other ferret owners since we all know the pain comes far too often with our little ones. They just don't live long enough - anything that's so precious is always too short-lived.
I have to admit that the experience of putting 2 down together was harder than I thought. Part of my concern was that I might be hanging on to Tonto a little too long. He got really geriatric toward the end. Today changed my mind.....My vet gave the sedative first. It's a gentle experience that gently makes them relaxed, sleepy and eventually puts them out - no stress/panicking. The big injection is given when they're unaware.
Here's the part that tore me up.....as the two we succumbing to a relaxed state, Tonto laid his head across Kachina's neck, and the two phased out together -cuddling. It was so important that they remained together. Needless to say, I lost it badly over this. It was as though Tonto had waited for Kachina's time. I am convinced (perhaps it's wishful thinking) that it would have been cruel to try to sustain one without the other.
In fact it feels really cruel for me to try to sustain myself when I a brat. You guys understand how this feels all too well .
Thank you for the kind words. -jennifer
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Post by Sherry on Apr 13, 2013 17:44:34 GMT -5
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Post by Heather on Apr 13, 2013 17:47:56 GMT -5
Gentle journey wee ones Gentle healings, Jennifer ciao
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Post by crazylady on Apr 13, 2013 19:16:01 GMT -5
keeping you in my thoughts dance on little ones take care bye for now Bev
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